When Is The Best Time In Life To Have Children?
Uncategorized December 24th, 2009and i’ve heard “there’s never a right time” please, answer only if you are a mother who was 25-35 yrs old when you started having kids (or if you have answers from someone else in that age group). i’ve heard girls say they want to have kids early so they are done raising them earlier in life. but then there’s the ones who wait cuz they are enjoying life without kids in the beginning of their marriage. tell me what you think?
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
Dear friend
I m not a mother.but I m father…if you want to get a baby when you are 25-35 yrs old.also if you really feel to care a baby.thats important…sincerely…
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
Enjoy life while you can : having kids is like shutting you out of your own life for the rest of your days !
I started having mines at the age of 28, my wife was 28 as well and it was way too soon for us.
On the other hand, our kids are the most amazing and gratyfing persons we know so we are glad.
But it’s more than a change, although it’s the beginning of something new, it’s the end of your old you.
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
When you feel ready to have them that your time, but is that your partners time as well, that is something for both of you to deside.Remeber its a live time committement. are you ready to do so.Kids are our future.
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
i know you said a specific age should answer but i just wanted to give my input. i think young 20`s are good cause my mom was 23 when she had me now that ive moved out her and my dad have been goin to vegas and all kinds of trips and things. they`re 44&45, so they are still young and having fun!!
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
never
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
Just make sure that your spouse and you have a great foundation!!! It will make a world of difference! Having kids kinda early so that you have the energy to chase them! Also….so that you can still work to pay for their $80,000 a year college in 18yrs! Ouch!
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
from 25-40 you don’t want them late in life or to early
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
When you are finacially, emotionally, mentally, & your relationship is stable.
I have heard late 20’s early 30’s are the best years. You’re grown up enough and played a lot already…
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
My wife was 37 and I was 40 when we had our first child. We felt it would have been better if our daughter had come along earlier because we would have had more energy while she was growing up. Also, as they grow into their teens and early twenties, if the age gap is less, there is likely to be less problesm with communications.
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
between 12 and 15 is good.
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
never, but if u have to definately anytime after u graduate from college. or find someone who actually love u first and wont dump u 5 years down the line.
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
When u are rich DA
December 24th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
I think late 20’s is best to start, if you are ready. I had my first at 26, and I now have 3 at 31. Our kids will be adults by the time we turn 50. My parents had kids young, and now they are young enough to travel and have fun. I’ve also known friends who waited until 30-32, and had a lot of trouble getting pregnant. You might feel more ready at 35, but what if it is too late and you cannot concieve? It wasn’t worth the risk for me.